It’s not bad luck. It’s a pattern — an invisible loop between your fears, your needs, and the kind of people you’re drawn to.
“You give everything, hoping they’ll finally stay.”
“You try to communicate clearly, but they pull away.”
“You tell yourself this time will be different — until it isn’t.”
“Patterns are emotional blueprints — formed early and repeat in relationships.”
Each of us learned, long before we were conscious of it, how to give and receive love. These early experiences shaped the kind of connection that feels ‘safe’ — even when it’s not healthy. Until those patterns are changed, they quietly run the show.
1. Awareness:
Lean Why They Form
Love and fear first met in childhood.
2. Recognition
See How They Show Up
In your attractions, your communication, your triggers.
3. Interaction
How To Respond
Slow down the reaction to their behavior and take back your power.
4. Transformation
How You Change
Choosing from a new place of empowerment.”
6 Common Patterns
Everyone has many patterns — a story about love, safety, and connection that repeats until it’s healed.
I’m Drew Yacu, founder of the Path to Commitment ecosystem — a series of programs that help people move from confusion to clarity in love. After two decades of studying relational psychology, patterns, and the emotional body, I created a process that helps you understand why your love life feels so familiar — and what to do about it.
What others are saying:
“Drew’s program was a revelation. It helped me understand why I kept attracting the same situations and gave me the tools to finally change it. Highly recommend!” - Jessica L.
“I feel like I finally have clarity after years of confusion. The process was insightful and empowering, allowing me to build healthier connections.” - Mark P.
“The deep dive into emotional patterns transformed my perspective. Drew’s humble authority makes complex psychology accessible and actionable.” - Chloe T.